Wednesday, November 28, 2007

yipee! one last paper to go which is 1 wk away! right now, jus gg to relax & watch all e tv i wan & replenish my beauty sleep!
oh well, LP paper 2dae is HORRIBLE! haha but shant tink too much..i feel happy nwae! =)

went to vivo watch Doraemon movie w dardar!! super cute leh! so glad its in chinese else e feelin will b different alr! muahaha~ nice nice, especially 2dae after e paper..its jus e right timing to watch! feels like exams-over though i still haf another paper to go, hahaha..oh yea, a disgusting girl popped up from behind & scare me while dardar & i were walkin out of Food Republic. piak her, stupid wen! feels happy to c her cus shes so bubbly! even dardar said tt! YAY!

feels good!

YIPEE! exams starting tmr, reali cant wait man. sadly, our last pp is on 6 dec!! cus theres a 1 wk break between the 2nd last & last pp..zzz, reali sian. nwae i haf frens whose exams end todae!! *envious* wana plan many post-exam activities! in fact i've already start planning wahaha!! so wish to go travelling too.. wana piak my sis le, she went to Hokkaido for 8 days & came back. 2 weeks ltr, she went to Hong Kong for 4 days & came back too! wahh..nv bring me along!! =( but ok lah, at least she rmbs to buy me things from those places! ^^

yes indeed. i'm glad i have such a friend =)

familiarity breeds contempt.

'whatever sweet quirks your other half has may morph into irritating habits which bring out the worst in you'

its just sad & pathetic.

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finally set my mind on not going for S.W.E.A.T camp!
i tore the form so that i'll not change my mind.

4 reasons for my decision:

- i hope to spend the day w dardar on 10 Dec. i mean, its after exams & we can finally enjoy the day to our hearts' content.

- jus rmb cousin's wedding falls on 12 Dec. already promised mum i'll b going with her for the morning ceremony as well. it jus saves the hassle of breaking camp earlier to rush home. yup, taking the easy way out.

- i need tt $40 to do smth else.

- since we r allowed to form groups to participate, i personally feel its better to go in pairs for such camps.


i'll b lying if i say i dun feel anything towards my decision. perhaps its just my personality that i dun wan to be excluded from activities tt they do. like, if they r going to participate in smth, u hope to do the same thing w them tgt.
but after some thinkings, i've more or less come to terms w it. hope they'll njoy the camp! cus it really sounds fun~ & all those activities i hafen try b4! wahahah~

haf been reading my GEK 1006 textbk for the past wk due to preparatns for mid-term test. in e book, theres alwis a short quote at the start of each chapt. some of which i find to b true:

"Communication is to a relationship, what breathing is to maintaining life." - Virginia Satir

"The easiest kind of relationship is with ten thousand people, the hardest is with one." - Joan Baez

"The aim of an argument or discussion should not be victory, but progress." - Joseph Joubert

words of wisdom worth remembering for life.
of cus, remembering is not enough; put it into practice.

i personally like the last quote most cus it goes parallel with my own thoughts. really, the primary goal of addressin a conflict is to solve e problem & not aggravate it.
being willing to take the 1st step shows tt you cherish & want to preserve the frenship/relationship.
this bonding is simply worth the effort.
put your pride aside, u dont necessarily have to admit u r in the wrong or u r the loser.. there r situations whereby its hard to define clearly who is in the right or wrong, but is tt really so important?
healthy conflict management strategies definitely add values to the frenship/relationship.

readers, pls do not stop at this point. look into these phrases, i hope u'll be able to gain useful insights!